Vegans, carnivores and paleos – can’t we all just get along?

Today we have a very special guest blog from my friend Pauline Magnusson. You are in for a treat and a surpise!  So without further dealy…

 

Shhh . . . don’t tell Carl – I’m not a vegan!

What?  You’re not either?  Don’t worry, your secret’s safe with me!

Actually, Carl knows I’m not a vegan, and I am both delighted and honored that he’s allowed me to guest post today, writing about intentional eating, whether vegan, paleo, nourshing traditions, or someplace among all three.

I have to tell you, though, a few months back, I very nearly wouldn’t have read Carl’s blog!  I mean, it mentions vegan recipes and a vegan cookbook, and if you take one look at the contents of my freezer or fridge, you’ll know I’m a pretty happy, pretty convinced omnivore, including various kinds of meat, fowl, and fish.  (And that’s saying nothing of my love of fresh dairy products, but we’ll leave that for a moment).

One day I mentioned my meat-eating diet to him, expecting a militant response about how vegan is better.  But that’s not what I got!  Much to my surprise, we enjoyed a wonderful conversation about intentional eating in healthful ways.  Turns out – we share a belief that there can be a place for the consumption of meat in a lifestyle focused on wellness.

In fact – let me tell you a bigger secret than the fact that I’m not vegan.

Carl’s not vegan either!  Yep, you’re reading that right!  

Lest you think I’m spilling secrets, he blessed my sharing of that information in this blog post, hoping to affirm the reality that there can be more than one specific nutritional path to wellness.

A vegan diet was a key player in Carl’s own journey toward healing and wellness, and he continues to recognize and affirm the role that a vegan diet can play in cleansing and healing. 

Day to day, however, in the support of an ongoing lifestyle of wellness, he (and I) note that vegan dishes go great with meat (and we are intentional and picky about the sources of animal protein, but more on that later)!

In assuming he continued to be vegan – or that he was arrogantly militant about it, it’s not fair to blame him for my assumptions – I used to be one myself!  For about two years in college, based on ideology about hunger in the world, I chose to be vegetarian.  I wasn’t militant per se, but I definitely perceived myself as “better” than those who ate meat, and was sure to find subtle ways to let others know.

My pride took a tiny fall after having my wisdom teeth removed when the first solid food I wanted was beef.  Nothing satisfied me until I had some, and it was almost embarrassing to admit how good that first steak tasted.

In the years since then, I’ve done a lot more reading about diet and at least a little more growing up, I hope!

I’ve learned that solely basing my diet on political ideology, the latest greatest fad, or any other external source of input is a recipe for disaster in more ways than one.

I’ve learned that one of the most important ways to judge a healthy lifestyle and diet is to honestly assess how it makes me feel. 

That’s not to say that I don’t consider outside advice with respect to healthy living.  Far from it!  But in the face of contradicting advice from experts, self-help books and friends on the latest diet, I’ve learned that it’s important to find the right way to cook, eat, and live for me to be my healthiest.  And the specifics just might differ from what’s best for you.

That said, there are some basic principles of the way I choose to eat for wellness that have some universal wisdom, no matter what diet you follow specifically.  Here are 3 basic principles of eating for wellness that you might find helpful too, whether you include meat in your diet, are vegan, or somewhere in between.

 

Know your food’s source. 

No matter what you choose to eat, know where it came from, as far back in the chain as possible.  Our family eats beef that is raised on a small farm according to organic principles, though not certified organic.  We have a relationship with the farmer who raises our beef and each year we renew our contract to purchase a side of beef from him.  While I know we are not immune to the possibility of food-borne illness by this arrangement, it lessens our risk substantially.  As a mother of young children, this is very important to me!

The meat on our table is the product of relationships between ourselves and the farmer, the farmer and the earth, and yes, even ourselves and the animal itself.  My children understand where meat comes from – and the answer isn’t “the store.”

Our milk comes from an organic dairy whose practices we’ve researched and are comfortable with. We belong to a consumer-supported agriculture organization, or CSA, for our produce.  Through this arrangement, we pay a subscription fee up front that gives the farmers a known source of income and the ability to plan their growing accordingly.  Each week, we receive a box of seasonal, locally grown organic produce in return.  Again, in the exchange of goods and services, relationships are formed, and my children see that food is produced by real people working the soil at real farms.  (We try to grow some of our own but are challenged by the new climate and soil to which we have recently moved!)

 Limit the processing – eat simple, whole foods you can recognize. 

It amuses me to see the amount of food in boxes and bags at the big-chain health food stores, all proudly bearing the label “organic.”  It horrifies me to see people toting cart loads of it out the door, assuming that they’ve just made healthy choices.  Really – the only thing healthier as a result of that decision is the corporation pocketing their hard-earned money.  If you’re looking at a food item and can’t immediately tell what natural food it started out as, it’s likely not the most healthful choice you can make.

 

Vegan or carnivore – it’s not an all or nothing thing!

It’s so easy to draw our lines in the sand, isn’t it?  We like to put things (including our own choices) in boxes, declaring ourselves to be one thing or another.  It applies to diet too – listen to how people describe their diet, and you’ll hear lots of ownership and categorization.  “I’m vegan.”  “I’m Paleo.”  “I’m a Nourishing Traditions person.”  There’s an old saying that “you are what you eat,” but I’m positive – this isn’t it!   There are principles of many different kinds of healthy ways of eating that can be incorporated into whatever your overall diet includes.  For instance, while I am not vegan, I eat a vegan diet and eat only to satiety (initial feelings of satisfaction, not over-full) on Wednesdays and Fridays.   It is a reset that not only helps me feel invigorated and healthy, but also mindful of the blessing of having more than enough to eat.  

Whether vegan or meat eating, I share Carl’s vision that you have found a way of living intentionally, holistically, and well! 

If this is where you are, I celebrate with you – share with me in the comments below what elements of wellness you’ve found essential in your own life’s journey!

If you’re new to the idea of wellness and healthy, intentional eating, welcome!  Leave a comment below- which of the three principles above would make the biggest change in your approach to healthy living?

Stay tuned – I hear Carl’s next post might have tips for thoughtfully pairing savory vegan dishes with meat.  Count me in – YUM!

Be well!

Pauline

Pauline Magnusson is the founder and CEO of PaulineMagnusson.com.  She is a writer, blogger, adjunct professor, wife, and homeschooling mother of 3 with one on the wayShe is passionate about living intentionally at work, home, and everywhere in between.  A self-proclaimed word-nerd, she loves her work of writing and content creation, saying “Whatever it is, we’ll help you say it better!”

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  • http://www.facebook.com/denny.hagel Denny Hagel

    Love this article (and your writing style Pauline)…so refreshing to hear that those of us who are not a ‘specific’ eater are not damned to the wolves!! Eating with purpose based on how you feel is a much better mindset. When I think of ‘restrictions’ it brings a negative feel to the situation. Much prefer to see things as what I choose! Thanks!

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

       You and me both, Denny!  Especially in exploring issues of food, understanding diet as a matter of choice and empowerment rather than restriction is much more conducive (and even fun!) to making change!  When I started noticing changes in how I felt and was able to begin connecting it to what I was eating, it brought home the power of continuing to make incremental change toward eating for wellness and made it an adventure!  Blessings and wellness to you today!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Denny, not many of us like restrictions. And though I do have to establish ‘restrictions” at times in order for people to reach their goals, my bigger effort is in presenting the exciting, wonderful possibilities and opportunites that are available to choose! It is amazaing what provision has been made for us!

  • http://alexandramcallister.com/ Alexandra McAllister

    I enjoyed reading this article! Thanks to Pauline, and Carl for inviting her.  I must pay more attention myself to ‘Know Your Food’s Source.’ I am also looking forward to your next post about vegan dishes with meat!!

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

       Thanks, Alexandra!  I know that when we started paying attention to where our food comes from, it was a very natural transition for us to move toward more health-filled choices.  It didn’t feel at all like we were depriving ourselves, but empowering ourselves, which, as Denny also noted in her comment, feels much, much better!  Be blessed and well! 

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Alexandra, source is such a critical and overlooked element these days. We are just so accustomed to buying from the grocer, trusting them and accpeting it as good. But the sources today aren’t what they used to be and modern practices are stocking the shelves with foods that are healthy in one regard but unanything but in many others. Knowing how your food was raised and by who is becoming more and more crucial to wellness! Stay tuned…next week we’ll introduce vegan to meat! :-)  

  • http://www.pczick.com/ P.C. Zick

    Great post and very serendipitous. I just started reading Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver which applies much of the same philosophy touched upon in this blog. Know where the food comes from should be the new mantra for the masses as well if it makes you feel anything but satisfied then perhaps it shouldn’t be going into the mouth. Reminds me of an experience I had with a slice of key lime pie earlier this week.

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

      Thanks for the response!  You brought up a great point about paying attention to how you feel after eating something.  It’s amazing how this simple advice is so easy to miss until we make intentional changes and really take time to pay attention.  Several years ago as I was beginning this part of my food journey I had an a-ha moment like that – I had started limiting bleached grains and the like (white flour, white rice, pasta, etc.) but had a day where I hadn’t planned ahead for dinner  so thought, “It won’t hurt anything and made a plate of pasta.”  The next morning I was so sleepy and groggy – but I never would have made that connection between what I’d had the night before and my feeling in the morning if I hadn’t started making incremental changes. 

      Again – thanks for coming over and commenting!  Blessings and wellness to you today!

  • http://twitter.com/angiemjordan Angela Jordan

    I love using the determining factor of how you feel to determine the healthiness of your diet.  After all, your body is so sophisticated and will tell you when it is being abused or not cared for properly.  Thanks for the great info!  And I love spilling secrets :-)

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

      You’re cracking me up, Angela!  Aren’t secrets fun to share? 

      I think I became more aware of evaluating my diet based on how it made me feel when I became a mom and wanted to teach my kids how to eat well.  I didn’t want to make some foods good or bad, I wanted to help empower my children to be able to figure it out themselves, and that began to be a logical place to start. 

      Thanks so much for coming over and commenting!  Blessings of wellness to you and yours!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Angela…it is very true. Out bodies do tell us all we need to know. The trick is and what many have not learned, is how to listen and respond authenticaly with real provision. Thanks so much for reading today and I pray you have a very blessed Thursday!

  • http://micheletremblay.com/ Michele Tremblay

    Pauline,
    Congratulations to you for doing all of the research and getting your food sources in order. I buy organic everything and since my three sons are either out on their own or in college, we eat way less meat. In fact, both my husband and I sleep better eating mostly vegetarian. I agree with your premis. Listening to your body is the best way to eat in a mindful way!

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

      Thanks, Michele!  With small children, we’re at the other end of the spectrum (my food bill will be rising for years, I suspect!)  We are conscious about trying to help our kids connect what they eat with how they feel – it’s not perfect, but I’ve noticed that they rarely gorge themselves on sweet treats when offered, and definitely have a preference for less processed foods.  Good for you for listening to your body’s wisdom!  Be blessed and well!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl mason-Liebenberg

      Michele, I can only imagine the grocery bill with three sons in the house! Glad you have recognized something that brings positive benefit to you know! Have a very blessed day!

  • http://www.thechoicedrivenlife.com/ Olga

    Yes, when we listen to our bodies and act accordingly we will be in much better shape..; my husband is much bigger meat eater than I am; I am more a carbs eater. I love it when food has texture to it. I gained a lot of insight from this article; thanks!!

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

       Thanks for your comments, Olga!  Really listening to our bodies is such a key (and often so hard to do when we’re doing the same thing we’ve always done and don’t have anything to compare it to!)   Blessings to you and yours today!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Olga, you are certainly welcome! Awareness is susch a crucial element of our health and it sounds like you have that down! :-)

  • http://gretchenpritts.com/ Gretchen

    I really do love this post Pauline (Carl thanks for sharing her with us). You hit so many nails on the head for me about this whole topic. I love what you say about doing what’s right for you and doing it with intention. Nice job!

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

       Thank you so much, Gretchen!  While I do like to pretend that I have universal wisdom for all sometimes… ;-)   Seriously, this is one area that people (myself included) get so attached to “my way works for me so it should for you,” that it creates division instead of empowering people toward a lifestyle of health.  So glad this is something that resonates with you!  Blessings to you today!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Thank you, Gretchen! Pualine did a brilliant job with this article for sure! Glad you found it beneficial! Have a fanatstic Thursday!

  • http://www.facebook.com/heatheramyprice Heather Amy Price

    I feel like I may be the one person in the YCD group still eating granola bars, cheezits, sugar cereal, and other…. JUNK.  I’m impressed and amazed by many of you who are eating intentionally and I know that to get on board I need to COMMIT.  For now, I’ve switched my breakfast to a protein shake, and I work out most evenings.  Gotta work on lunch, dinner, and snacks, but I’m just getting started.  Thanks for a great article!

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

       Heather – I love your honesty and transparancy!  When you’re ready, you’ll be so internally motivated to change that it will seem easier.  There are some great busy-mom-friendly tips out there; if you get to a point where you’d want to hear them, I’d love to share.  I know that for me making it easy to eat well is the key; if it’s not easy, I won’t do it, no matter how great my intentions are.  Given your busyness, I’d have to congratulate you on the protein shake switch!  Baby steps are key.  In making any lifestyle change, one change at a time, turned into a habit, is the way to go.  Blessings to you! 

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Heather…two great steps taken! Proud of you for making that commitment! Keep taking those steps! you know where to find me if I can help too! Always here for you!

  • http://twitter.com/memktgservices Mandy Edwards

    What a great article Pauline!!  And thank you to Carl for letting you post! It’s nice to know you can incorporate vegan into a non-vegan lifestyle (I LOVE my steak every now and then).

    • http://www.themindfulmama.com Pauline Magnusson

       Thanks, Mandy!  I tell you, nothing goes with a great steak like grilled veggies this time of the year!  (Hm…broccoli or asparagus tonight with ours?)   ;-)

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Me too Mandy! I enjoyed lambshank last night…with rosemary au jus. A truly decadent treat!

      • http://www.paulinemagnusson.com/ Pauline Magnusson

        Oh my.  I think I’ll pause for a moment of reverence over that one…that sounds delicious, Carl!  

        • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

          LOL!! Yes, it was worthy! I do not partake often but, oh my, I have to admit to that being my fav. I could have eaten a triple serving lat night had money allowed! LOL

  • http://twitter.com/SusanMyersBiz Susan Myers (ツ)

    Love the way you write Pauline.  The good news for me is that “It’s not all or nothing”  I just joined this journey with Carl today actually.  He was encouraging to my needs and said to take baby steps.  So here we goooo….

    • http://www.paulinemagnusson.com/ Pauline Magnusson

       Susan, welcome to the journey!  How very exciting to be taking those baby steps toward better health and vitality through nutrition.  I’m excited to hear how you fare – keep me posted, would you?  Be blessed and well!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Susan, it is very exciting to have you on the team. It will be a great journey! One step at a time! :-)

  • http://manifestingmydestiny.com/ Lorii Abela

    Pauline, great article and Carl thank you for sharing it with us. You actually hit it on the spot. 

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Thank you, Lorii!! Be well and blessed!!

  • http://anitafiander.com/ Anita Fiander

    Great and informative post! Its all a little confusing sometimes :) Thanks for the clarity!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      I hope to take the confusion out of the equation as much as possible. Confusion is not an element of wellness success for sure! Thanks , Anita!!

  • http://twitter.com/ElisePhotini Elise Photini Adams

    Love this article….especially the BIG point in the middle–paying attention to how I feel is incredibly important in determining what is truly healthy.  Not only that, but I am not going to stick to something that is ‘supposedly’ healthy for me that makes me feel icky! Thanks for sharing here Pauline…and for having her guest write for you Carl! Love to both of you!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Thank you, Elise!! You are right…feeling icky is not a sign of wellness no matter the means! Sometimes there is an icky period due to the transition, and healing process, but that is temporary. If it lingers, not good!

  • Jen

    Great article Pauline!  Thanks Carl for having her guest post!  I just love what you are about!  

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      Thank you, Jen! Love you too!! :-)

  • http://twitter.com/kimgarst Kim Garst ツ

    Love this clarification! Pauline, amazing article!!

    • http://www.el3mentsofwellness.com/ Carl Mason-Liebenberg

      She did a beautiful and brilliant job with this article! I loved it too!

  • NormaDoiron

    Great guest post, very good advice. Focus is an important to keep remembering how to eat for a healthy body!  Thanks Pauline. x0x

  • Lori

    Thanks Pauline. I am really trying to cut out the processed foods. They are just so bad for you! Great article!